Spring is finally here, but the weather is so puzzling, one moment it’s sunny and the next it’s snowing or raining. On the day of the photo shoot, you have no idea how freezing it was! Yes, Mother Nature decided to punish us. All we could do was try to warm ourselves up and go with it. It all worked out well in the end as the photos look great!

We found an oversized cardigan from River Island in the sale, we loved the pop pink colour which goes so well with the gorgeous jeans by Parker Smith from Los Angeles. The dark blue, high-rise, ankle skinny jeans are a perfect fit. We still love striking flat mules, they are chic and super comfortable to walk in. They are absolutely perfect for all occasions, no wonder we are so obsessed with our shoes.

We also love Le Labo fragrances, they are a bit pricey, but worth it! Le Labo is a trendy New York-based fragrance house. Our chosen fragrance, Another 13, is clean, musky and refreshing, it makes us feel like we have been transported into the middle of a beautiful nature reserve.  Their brand is both unique and iconic producing excellent handmade perfumes and home fragrances. Once you smell one of their scents you will be totally hooked..

We are so excited the warmer weather has finally arrived and the flowers are blossoming. We are full of the joys of Spring.













 

Hermon’s wearing:

River Island Pink Cardigan (similar here)  | ASOS Stripe Tops | Parker Smith Jeans | River Island Mules (similar here) | Le Labo Another 13

| ASOS Earring (similar here)

Heroda’s wearing:

River Island Pink Cardigan (similar here)  | ASOS Stripe Tops | Parker Smith Jeans | Mango Mules | Le Labo Another 13

| ASOS Earring (similar here)

 

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It’s hard to believe we are already in March, one of our favourite months of the year, flowers are in bloom and of course, it’s Women’s History Month. Which women inspire you the most?

Haben Girma. She is an inspiration to people with disabilities as well as people without disabilities. She is living proof that if you are determined enough and if you try hard enough you will be successful. She is deaf-blind and she went to Harvard, the number one school in America.

We are excited to tell you that we have been selected by OkayAfrica as two of the Top 100 Women in the Continent. We are truly honoured to be OkayAfrica honorees 2018. Looking back, never in a million years, would we have thought we would be seeing ourselves as one of OkayAfrica honorees 2018 during Women’s History Month. We gave up everything in order to follow our dream, Being Her was created from ZERO, but also it’s proof that in the modern world many things are possible.

It’s amazing to be recognised for the work that we do.



We are proud to be part of Casetify Beautiful But Tough Campaign.

“We happen to be Deaf, we say happen, because we don’t see it as a disability as, others do. We see it as an advantage! With our hearing diminished our other senses become heightened, therefore our touch, taste and vision can appreciate different aspects maybe a hearing person wouldn’t.
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We both suffered our loss of hearing under strange circumstances. We were seven years old, playing outside (in our hometown Eritrea) one moment we could hear, the next we couldn’t. We refuse to allow being Deaf to define or hold us back. We thrive on positive thinking, taking up new challenges. We have had many difficult experiences but no matter how many up’s and down’s we experience it always brings us closer together. Our relationship is so strong because we understand each other. BEING HER was borne from frustration. We were frustrated by the Fashion Industries lack of accessibility. For a creative Industry the volume of constraints being applied to who and what can be achieved is surprising. When we feel limited, that’s when we decide to push boundaries. Our aims to challenge the world’s attitude and views towards people with disabilities
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We never allow being deaf to limit our ambition and disability doesn’t mean inability. We had to do something about it and make our voice heard! We want to inspire disabilities or people that they can make their dream come true.
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Being authentic makes us feel beautiful. Imperfections add to beauty, they draw you close, so you can fully appreciate it. Being deaf may be difficult but being scared is the real barrier. If you really want something in your life, you have to take a risk and never let anyone tell you you are weak because you’re a woman! Love being yourself and the world will love you!”



We were invited to be part of the Deafness and Self Care panel at the Women of the World Festival 2018, which was held at the Southbank Centre and were also WOW den judges.

WOW Den Judge: What do you think will change women’s lives for the better?

 It’s a bit like Dragon’s Den meets WOW, people are invited to suggest their ideas for making the world a better place for women and girls. We as judges have to decide which ideas should win. We had the best time, there were so many incredibly inspiring women conveying their ideas. The first place decision was made by a group of judges, including Olga Miler UBS Director, last year’s WOW Den winners Gabby Edlin, Mandu Reid and the founder of WOW Jude Kelly. We picked a former prisoner’s desire to help other women who have been in prison and the audience voted the second winner for a self-care festival.

Thank you to Hannah Poole for inviting us to be apart of the WOW experience it was surreal and exciting, both at the same time. It just goes to show being deaf, anything is possible.

Let’s focus on that…

Deaf Women are twice as likely to experience mental health issues as hearing women, yet most “talking therapies” such as CBT are not Deaf Aware, and self remedies such as mindfulness apps or mediation classes only cater to the hearing community. With higher risks of depression, suicide and self-harm.

 We had a discussion about the Deafness, mental health and self-care. We have learned a lot about mental health and deafness, the deaf community struggles daily with stigma and communication barriers, functioning in a hearing world can lead to mental health issues. The problem is, mental health services are too difficult for deaf people to access because of these communication problems.

Think about it, if you were a deaf person seeking help from the mental health services having a BSL/English interpreter isn’t good enough. This approach isn’t working for deaf community as three-way conversations can cause stress and/or misunderstandings. What is needed are trained therapists who are either deaf or fluent BSL users themsleves.

It’s very scary that hearing people from the profession are not aware about the issues surrounding deafness and mental health. This is something we need to discuss openly due to the high risk factor. If there are no BSL therapists or interpreters, how can they communicate? It’s important to make sure everyone has equal access to mental health services.

Any deaf people who feel that they can’t cope with their feelings or are feeling depressed, please go to SignHealth, it is a charity that is making sure Deaf people get the same access as hearing people to healthcare and health information.  We have met some amazing people who have made an impact on us concerning this issue and we applaud all their work. It’s time to change now, more awareness, will be better for everyone.

 You have to watch the Silent Child, the 2018 Oscar winner for best short film and then you will understand the issue…

We moved to USA first for several hearing tests, to get new hearing aids and speech therapy, everything we needed to help with our disability. Our mother knew we were going back to Eritrea after one year in USA because we had a wonderful home, our parents had good jobs. However they decided to move to the UK for our-sakes as the UK offered a better education and safety. There was a civil war in Eritrea. As a child we didn’t know where we were going which made us feel anxious and overwhelmed. Without the support system put in place by our parents we would have ended up in a lost world.

 We found our identity at boarding school. Sign language was so beautiful, and the deaf community just became our family. Within the hearing world, it can be lonely. As soon as we were in that deaf world, we fitted in. It was where we belonged. Signing is physical and beautiful. It’s visual, it relies quite a lot on facial expressions and a positive vibe. We want to educate you on what sign language means and give you a sense of deaf awareness. You need to be more open minded and learn sign language.

Our identity is so important to us because if we weren’t deaf, we would simply not be the way we are now. Life for us would be so different, we are proud of who we are with our deafness. Being deaf hasn’t held us back from doing what we want to do in our lives!













Hermon’s wearing :

Zara top |  Zara trouser | Lack of Color Hat (similar here)

Heroda’s wearing :

Zara top |  Zara trouser | Lack of Color Hat (similar here)

Photos by Nabih Kassam

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We love to wear sport outfits. They are chic without having to actually go to the gym. How great is that? Sport Luxe has become more and more popular. Just because you dress down doesn’t mean you have to lose your style. 

Our outfits have clean lines, bold colour stripes and comfort. It can be as simple as wearing mules or graffiti and embellished trainers are currently big trends for spring/summer. The mules trend isn’t going away anytime soon, loving it!


We fell in love with a khaki puffer jacket thats as high-fashion as it is practical, whats not to love? It’s like marmite – you either love it or hate it. 

By the way curly hair rocks, You’re rocking your natural hair and you’re beautiful for it. Seriously. You’re gorgeous.


Hermon’s wearing:

Zara Top| Zara Trouser | Puffer Jacket (similar here) | Zara CrossBody Bag |Embroidered mules (similar here)

Heroda’s wearing:

Zara Top| Zara Trouser | Puffer Jacket (similar here)| Zara CrossBody Bag | Graffiti Trainers

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2017 has just flown by so fast, we honestly can’t believe it has already been an entire year since we started Being Her. It hasn’t been easy but in the best kind of way. We could never have imagined that this crazy journey would be so exciting.

Huge sacrifices were made, but united we started our blog together. We were inspired by a true passion for fashion, we noticed people were hungry for real inspiration. So, we set up our blog to share our journey in the hope of showing a realistic view on life, while expressing our different personalities. We want to tell the world that you should embrace your disability or flaws and not hide from them. We feel it is important to challenge the world’s attitude and views towards people with disabilities.

We love combining our great passions in life; travel and fashion. Our blog gives us the opportunity to widen our perspective. The more you see, the less you hate. Prejudice is a big part of the human condition and the more cultures you experience the more you realise they are not that different from us. Being Deaf isn’t a barrier, being scared isn’t a barrier. Be brave, be courageous and new experiences will alter your life forever.

At times it has been a little overwhelming for us because it’s our job to keep up the momentum of Being Her. What makes us feel strong and positive is taking up new challenges and fighting back from failures with determination. We have experienced many difficult experiences, but no matter how many up’s and downs we go through, our experiences have brought us closer together and made our relationship stronger because we understand each other.

We have always liked to set ourselves targets and our aim for 2017 was to travel as much as we could… We were fortunate enough to travel to Greece, Lisbon, France, Iceland and Malta. We gotta keep travelling, whenever we can and our first visit in 2018 will be to Denmark. Travelling is a passion that must be fulfilled.

One of the many highlights of 2017 was being featured in ELLE South Africa, CNN, Blavity, Konbini, Marie Claire South Africa. Travel Noire and were happy to collaborate with Daniel Wellington, Airbnb, Illicia, Nanawax, Breast Cancer Care and Happy Socks. We are also excited to be working with a new agency, The Presley Group based in Los Angeles, what an amazing opportunity. It’s been a wonderful year, one where we managed to break down many barriers. With hard work and dedication we aim to make 2018 a year to remember… we’re ready to rock and roll. Our interview with Forbes Woman Africa out now in Forbes Woman Africa Jan 2018

We absolutely love the stylish looks we have created, the boho pieces that will never go out of fashion. We love to wear tribal, colourful and free-spirited yet beautiful prints. The clothes you wear reflect your personality, making us feel bold and full of life. There are no rules when it comes to wearing a hat, it will always make an outfit never break it. Boho chic is one of our all-time favourite style vibes.

So, let’s see what adventures await us in Year Two of Being Her. From the bottom of our heart, we wanted to THANK YOU to each and every one of you!

We wish you the most magical year ahead.

Lots of love!



Hermon’s wearing:

Pretty Little Things Dress | Public Desire High Knee Boots | Lack of Color Hat (similar here)

Heroda’s wearing:

Mango Maxi Dress (similar here and here) | Public Desire Ankle Boots | Lack of Color Hat (similar here)

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Christmas is just around the corner, it is our favourite season of the year.

Christmas has always been a big occasion in our life. We remember growing up, getting presents, spending time with people we care about and stuffing our faces with FOOD! And mulled wine.

As you see, our outfits, vertical stripes is trending for spring 2018, but you can wear them all year around. We found beautiful shirts and wide legs from PrettyLittleThing, we’re loving their collection. This is perfect timing for Christmas, you don’t HAVE to wear sequin, red and green glamour. Stripes are stylish and flattering. There’s a cool way to knot your shirt. It can be edgy and boho. You have to remind yourselves that the clothes you wear reflect your personality so be bold and don’t be afraid to embrace it.

Hope you enjoy a fabulous Christmas and a fantastic New Year. Eat lots, have fun and spend some quality time with the ones you love!

Merry Christmas!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Hermon’s wearing:

PrettyLittleThing Shirt | PrettyLittleThing Wide Leg Trouser | Asos Bodysuits (similar here) | Public Desire Ankle Boots

Heroda’s wearing:

PrettyLittleThing Shirt | PrettyLittleThing Wide Leg Trouser | Asos Bodysuits (similar here) | Public Desire Ankle Boots

 

Photos by Victoria Metaxas 

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